I'm going to LOVE on Friday for the Lebron James Pivate Red Party. At first I was going to do it all up and wear my freakum dress or some shorts, but it is cold as I don't know what oustide so I think I will just go caual.

Me and Aries have been looking around at some vacation packeges. My friend Sean went to the Jamaican Jump Off last year. He had alot of fun. I don't know if I really want to go. It looks like a lot of fun, but hey you only live once so why not. If any of you guys ever been let me know whats up?

I have been talking to my good friend Cherry about dating and men. She is going throught some stuff with this guy that she has been dating. So I have been looking around at some site about dating mistakes that women make. I found this article that explained some mistakes very well.


When women first begin dating a new man they tend to make mistakes that will eventually cause the relationship to end. These mistakes can easily be avoided if women will take the time and make the effort to avoid them. Here are 5 mistakes that women make when dating a man:


Not telling the man your likes and dislikes – People only know what we communicate to them. If you are a vegetarian and you tell him you love to barbeque steaks every night this will finally become a problem. Tell him about yourself so that he can get to know the real you. If you continue to do things you don’t like or enjoy you will soon resent him for not reading your mind.

Changing your life completely for him – Do not change or cancel plans that you have already made with other people. It is nice to show a man that you are interested and want to spend lots of time with him, but if you drop everything and everyone to only be with him he will get nervous and back away from you.

Believing that he will change over time – Adults do not change too much as they get older. If your man is habitually late he will probably continue to do it. If he is a smoker he will probably smoke for as long as you know him. If he has too many things that you would like for him to change, perhaps you just need to change to another man.

Not believing what he says – People tell us who they are. Women are notorious for thinking that men are saying one thing and mean another. That’s us. Women do that but men usually don not. If your man tells you he doesn’t like the beach don’t keep talking about taking a trip to Hawaii. By believing what he says you show him that you are intelligent and trusting.

Making excuses for his behavior – There is no excuse for bad behavior. If he drinks too much and belittles you do not make excuses for him. If he is unkind to you and says it is because he had a bad day at work do not make excuses for him. If you make plans to go out with another couple and he cancels at the last minute because he had something more important to do, don’t make excuses for him. You get it now. Don’t make excuses for his bad behavior. That is who he is and you need to find someone else.

Staying in a relationship with someone that you are not honest with, who you will cancel all of your plans for, who you expect to change at some future point in time, who you think is just saying one thing when he really means another, who has bad behavior that you keep excusing – is not a good idea. Get out of the relationship now before you feel terrible about yourself, become very unhappy, and begin to blame him for all of your problems. There are many wonderful men out there who are looking for wonderful women. Also, just because one man is not a good partner for you does not mean that they will not be good with someone else. Life is too short to be with someone we are incompatible with.

Connie Ragen Green is a motivational writer, speaker, and mentor. To find out how to make dating fun and enjoy your relationships more visit her site.

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This past weekend I hung out with "The Cop Dude" and James. I saw "The Cop Dude" at his house on Friday and had a few drinks. He gave me a massage and then I feel asleep. The next morning I was throwing up like crazy. I just had two drinks. I don't know what the heck was going on. He made me a drink that had Grey Goose and Orange Juice in it. I was gone off of the first half of the drink. All in all I don't think I’m going to put anymore energy in to him. He has been slacking on his duties. Besides i don't really think he is into me.

On Sunday, I went to James football game and then to the movies. We saw the movie "Vacancy".I tell you James has really been pushing up on me like I’m his girl. After that lil fallout we had has really did a 180. We went out b4, but now we are hanging out a lot more and around his friends and stuff. I still don't think we would ever be in a relationship, but it nice to act like we are. His ass is probably acting like this because he had a fallen out with some other girls. He says I’m his girl and that how he introduces me to people, but I’m not buying all of that smooth talk. One thing that is getting on my nerves is that every time we go out he always see's some one he knows. He never says oh this is Mimi. so that is really suspect to me. I’m like ok he's in a band, but come on. He's not a Rock Star or something...UGH... Anywho, I had a good time with him. He wants us to go to Florida for his birthday. This is a lil strange for me. I have never been out of town with my boyfriend or someone that I was talking too. I normally go with my friends or my travel buddy. This is all new for me, but we'll see if we go.

IM BACK!!!!

Let’s just say that my clinical was not all of that fun. My back was killing me and still is. I said I wouldn't do it fulltime, but I can't even imagine doing it PT. I’m like being on call or something is fine. Aries was having a great time getting blood. I was just so annoyed with the whole thing. The people that were so called training us had lil to no patience. I’m like HELLO? Aren’t you are suppose to be helping us. Anywho, I did what I was supposed to do and in the end got the short end of the stick. I had some hard patients and my teacher said if you can’t feel the vein then don’t stick the person. So that’s what I did. I’m like if I was the patient I wouldn't want someone fishing for a vein. Bump that. That is just mean. There is this one lady that works there who did that a lot. I guess she is like hey I got it so what. Aries was getting on my nerves, because she was drawing a lot of attention to me when I couldn't get a vein. I guess she really enjoyed drawing blood because she was jumping up to help stick left and right and do this and that. For me I can't do it. I just don't like it. So in the end I did about 230 patients. However, when I looked at my evaluation (even though I wasn't suppose to see it) it said Probably 210. They also said :

Mimi needs to work on her technique and try harder patients".


I was pissed... UGH... Aries got excellent job! and she will be a wonderful Phlebotomist. I’m like big ups to her, but damn they really upped her stick count to probably 260-270. I’m like what the fuck?!?! They brought my count down and moved her count up... WOW... I couldn't believe it. I guess they could see that come 1pm my energy goes down and I have that whatever attitude. All and all I’m happy it over with.

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I have my clinical next week so I probably won’t be posting anything for a bit. I’m not really looking forward to it, but I can’t wait to get it over with. Wish me luck!!!

This weekend I’m doing a lil bit of shopping with my friend Cherry. I’m not buying anything. I’m just going for the ride. No spending money for me at least not for awhile.

I don’t think that I’m going to do much of anything this weekend. The only thing that I have planed is to see the "Cop Dude" tonight and James on Saturday night. James wants me to go to his show that his GO-GO band is having. I can’t tell you when the last time I went to a GO-GO. It’s not really my type of music or crowd. There are normally a bunch of “Hood” dudes and a bunch of “Rollers” in there. James was like the reason that I’m going wasn’t to see them, but to see him. On the other hand I don’t want to look like the “flavor of the week”. I don’t know who he normally brings every week, but I don't want to look like oh this is some new chick or this is the chick he was talking about. Ugh... that kind of stuff gets on my nerves. You know like if he is one of those guys that always have a new girl with him every time you see them. Ugh... Anyway, so I said ok only because I haven’t seen him in a bit nor have I seen him play b4. I’m pretty sure it was either that or going to his football thing. It’s too cold out side to be doing all of that, so that why I’m going.

I was talking to the "Cop Dude" last night. He went to the Tigger welcome back party. I started to go. Earlier that day my Sis called me and asked me if I wanted to go, but I was like hmmm....... it’s on a Thursday ....hmmm.... a work night........ Not a good idea. Plus my ass had class too so I really wasn't going anywhere. Anywho, so he calls me when he is leaving the club and tells me that he had a dream about me the other night. I’m like oh really? What was it about? He tells me that I told him that I was getting married and that after I said that he lost all interest in me. He then said that it really hurt him…. Rolling eyes…. Yea right!!!!. When he asked me that all of his friends that where in the car with him started cracking up laughing. He then says that’s not funny. So I’m like WTF? Is he playing or is he for real? Did he say "that’s not funny" to me saying ok you can laugh now it was a joke or to his friends like it wasn’t a joke. I asked him was he playing and he says no and ask me if I’m really about to get married. I told him no not that I know of. But 4 real 4 real knowing that if my Boyfriend was to papoose to me I would say yea and would be making plans the next day. So I sort of felt like he was just showing off and it was really getting on my nerves. by this time he drove over to "Ben's Chili Bowl" and was about to get out the car to get something to eat. He said he was going to call me latter but he didn’t. I ask him today about last night and how I felt like he was showing off. He said that he wasn't playing and that he really has a feeling that I was about to get married. He said his friends were laughing because the way he said it. To me he just sounds like he is not into me anymore and it trying to give and excuse. I’m like OK?... stuff like that you don’t ask around other people. I’m not going to stress my self out. I’m just going to have a free meal and movie from time to time.

Perfect Stranger - Trailer

Perfect Stranger - Trailer

This movie was HOT!! I loved it!!! Go see this movie on Friday!!!

I saw the "Cop Dude" last night. I haven’t really been talking about him too much. He is still a hard to figure out. it like most dudes you can see game off the break but i can't with him. I kind of pulled away from him for a bit. About 3 weeks ago I was suppose to see him after work. We where going to have an "Ikea date". Yea that kind of date may seem corny, but I thought that it was so cute that he wanted me to help him decorate his lil bachelor pad. He has a very nice apartment, but he doesn’t have 6 pillows, a feather bed or comforter. I'm like WHO THE HELL CAN SLEEP ON A BED THAT DOSEN'T HAVE A 6 PILLOWS AND A FEATHER BED!!! No I don't sleep on every single pillow on my bed and 3 of them may end up on the floor in the morning, but they make your bed look so plush and feel really comfy. Anyway, he didn't call me at all that day so I was like bump it. I’m not calling him anymore and I guess he is not that into me anymore. That really sucked because I really liked him. So after a few week of BS’n on him and being very unavailable he calls me to ask if he could stop by my house after work. We talked and now where’re suppose to see each other on Friday. But who knows. I’m like hey whatever. Sure he can take me out and spend some money on me. But I’m not that into him like I was b4. He has really got bumped down a few spots.


I’m going to see that new Hallie Berry movie "Perfect Stranger " on Wednesday. I'm so excited. The movie looks like it is going to be really good. I use to be really on top of movies. I use to see 2 or ever 3 sneak premiers a week all for free. I don't think I will start back going to them like that again, but it nice to see it early.

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I know this is an old vid, but I really like this song.

This weekend I did what I expected to do. I chilled in the house all weekend. The least that I did was some running around here and there on Saturday morning with my Brother and Sister. After that I chilled in the house and relaxed. Unfortunately, I didn’t seem to make it to the gym. I wasn't sure if my credit card folks took their last payment from my account. WHEW... I’m so happy this is my last payment you just don't know. I’m credit card DEPT FREE!!!! However, I do have my student, car, and personal loans to still pay. However, there interest is so low that it’s not going to kill me to pay like I have been doing. I’m telling you this is the last credit card I will ever have other than an American Express. I will probably try to get that next year or so before I go to Dominican Republic.

As the days are getting closer to the summer, I’m kind of looking forward to be “bada bing” again. I remember at the beginning of the year I said I wasn't going to wear fake hair or nails anymore. I’m thinking about doing it again just for the summer. My nails still haven’t grown out from the tips that I had last year. My nails grow so freaking slow. My hair color is so dark. I said I wasn’t going to dye my hair anymore, but I’m thinking about going honey blond again for the summer. My friend Cherry told me not to do it and to just let my hair grow like it’s been doing, put a rinse in it and get it done. My other friend Aries said to just dye the top and get a weave so I won’t be dyeing my whole head. I may just do that and keep my natural nails up with the French.

I have been monitoring my calories and fat intake for a while now. I try to eat between 800-1000 calories. I know people are going to think that it’s not enough calories for me to function throughout the day, but it’s enough for me. Lauren told me I need to eat more food to lose weight, but when I was working out and eating more food that I normally would I didn’t lose any weight. I just stayed the same. I’m just going to stick to what I know that works.

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